This year I’m grateful that Chris’ girls both joined us and the boys for the first time this Thanksgiving. This blog reminds me of how much has changed in a year, though they also stay the same. Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving overflowing with family, loved ones, and plenty of joy!
There’s a good reason that depression skyrockets around the holiday, and I have to surmise that for a large number of people it’s because of difficult family relationships and dynamics.
I would say our family dynamic is more… unconventional. Thanksgiving this year will mean a potluck dinner at my house with my kids, my sweetheart Chris, his daughter and her boyfriend, my ex-husband Dave and his parents and sweetheart.
If we can only add in the parents of our sweethearts, this blended family stew (powderkeg?) would be like some sadistic Brady family gathering.
The family reunion has been happening for special events and holidays for over two years, since Dave and my separation. This arrangement was suggested by our co-parenting mediator, that we do the holidays as a family, for at least a year. Dave and I happily did so, because we were acting on the belief that the kids’…
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