Pretty much everyone I know is smart. So friends, don’t hate me for what I’m about to say. But someone has to say it and I’m known for speaking what I believe to be truth.
We can be a real pain in the buttinsky.
There. I said it.
At least know that I’m including myself in this equation. In fact, it’s my own experience from which I draw this conclusion.
In my last blog, I wrote about the difference between confidence and arrogance. We can easily cross into arrogance in a blink of an eye – yours truly especially. Arrogance can be very global to our whole lives, or to a major part of our lives like our work (which is mostly what I was referring to). But arrogance can also be situational and episodic. Either way, it can lead to stupidity.
I like to think that I usually keep my ego in check, but I’m rethinking that assumption after a recent minor injury. As a (non-practicing) health care professional, I felt that I was capable of self-prescribing my recovery plan. A week later I had made little or no progress. It took a chorus of not only my immediate but extended family (and a few friends) to send me to the doctor and get and X-ray and some crutches.
Some people are more open to input than others.
And, as usual, I see the fallacy in others but not my own folly.
“Why do you look at the speck in your brothers eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?”
I frequently see others bypass the wisdom of experts, even when offered for free, because of their belief that their knowledge, wisdom and ability to strategize into the future is complete. They are (I am) an island, and you can keep swimming on by.
In certain areas, I am a wise consumer. I tend to get care, advice, and supervision proactively when I know I’m out of my league. In that case, what I don’t know is just ignorance. But when in an area of comfort and knowledge, what I don’t know are blind spots potentially reinforced by arrogance. Health, psychology, relationships, education, parenting… my blind spots are vast and deep.
“Ignorance is bliss but knowledge is power”
Which do you choose?