Someone needs to tell the perfectionists and control freaks out there that they are making everyone else miserable. We don’t need your stinkin’ perfection! You know those the traits that you find most frustrating in others are the really the things that you hate about yourself? You know what I’m saying. Hello, my name is … Continue reading Healing the Perfectionist and Control Freak
This is such a great time of year as so many of us are wrapping up Commencement. We just returned from Jackson’s graduation at Denison University. Those graduates had an amazing 4 years there and really have enhanced who they are as humans and world citizens. The student delivering the senior class address was named … Continue reading To Plan or Not to Plan?
You know how everyone says obnoxious, arrogant, know-it-all people are really just insecure? I think that really is true for most difficult people. Some type of insecurity or fear drives many people who are perfectionists, control freaks, know-it-alls, negative, or hostile. Chances are, these fears and insecurities are on a subconscious level and so the … Continue reading Difficult People – A Paradigm Shift
I don’t believe in stress anymore. I think it’s highly overrated so I suggest you just dispense with it. I’m not talking about the low amounts of stress that cause you to be productive, meet deadlines and do a good job. I’m talking about anything beyond that, because then, by definition, the stress is counterproductive. … Continue reading De-Stress in One (Sort of) Easy Step