Ever since I realized that the goals that came from my brain did not bring happiness when achieved, I have been focusing on life’s meaning and purpose. So when Chris passed away and Spirit invited me to start the Foundation, with its audacious goal of helping others (on a global scale) to create positive and rewarding relationships with themselves, each other, and Earth, I felt I had to put my money where my mouth was (literally). I left a 26-year career in higher education and am contributing a large part of my savings to the cause. Though at the time I wasn’t sure to what degree Spirit would be actively helping me, I decided that I would want to try to do this either way. I figured that if I received help, all the better.
No coincidence, then, when I’m invited to share a message with someone, it’s usually about what their life’s purpose is or could be. It’s taken my work on callings to a whole new level.
Spirit has also been sharing with me the purpose of humanity’s existence. We’re here to learn and grow to create more light and love. We do so through service to Earth, children and those who cannot care for themselves, and each other, in that order. We also take care of ourselves in the process.
Our focus should be ecocentric and humanistic. Our materialism and focus on money, status, power, and luxury and comfort items are far afield from what we’re supposed to be doing. It is at odds with God’s expectation that we care for Earth. Our unremitting, senseless consumption is draining Earth’s resources, and polluting her waters and land, and is unsustainable. We already know that Earth is ailing, yet we continue to take and take without regard to the long-term consequences.
Our first order of business needs to be to find ways to care for Earth in the ways that will be most helpful to her. The Foundation for Family and Community Healing (www.familyandcommunityhealing.org) was created based on guidance from Spirit so that I may deliver this message and lead the way.
As a supplement to existing environmental efforts, we should also be providing the emotional and spiritual support that Earth needs. We are in a reciprocal, emotional and spiritual relationship with Earth, and therefore we should provide emotional and spiritual support for Earth’s healing.
To learn more about this, you should join and follow our social media campaign. But in the meantime, simple things you can do now are to pray or meditate for Earth each day and/or be present when you step outside. Notice how Earth and her plants, animals, and minerals look, feel, smell, taste, and sound. It takes no extra time and will be helpful to Earth for her to know that we are paying attention to her out of love and concern for her and her wellbeing.
If our collective purpose is to care for Earth and each other, how do we know what is our individual purpose? Our individual purpose in life has a simple formula. You are likely meant to be helping others in areas that you struggled the most. For example, if you struggled to have enough money in your life, your purpose might be related to helping others get by with what they have, or to find ways to make money. If you struggled with some aspect of having a medical condition, maybe your purpose is to help others with that aspect of their medical condition.
You may feel like you still have a long way to go to rise above the challenge you are facing. That may be true, but it is also likely true that you’ve made a great deal of progress already, and that many are far behind where you are currently. So in your calculation, consider the challenges you’ve faced where you’ve made the most progress. For example, I’ve struggled with finding my authentic purpose, going down the wrong track of seeking a tenure only to find it didn’t bring me happiness, so that is my passion and my current work (I’m going to create an app, y’all!). I’ve also struggled with growing plants, but I’ve made no progress on that so it would not be a good life’s purpose for me right now…unless I decide to change that and learn. Which I will. So stay tuned!
In summary, your life’s challenges are there for you to learn and grow. You use that knowledge to serve Earth or others. It could become a calling, your unique way to serve the world. There’s a beautiful symmetry to it, and it belies the idea that we’re supposed to just be comfortable our whole life and never struggle.
You may recall that I did a lot of informal and formal advising for the students in the program I worked for. Many of these incredibly bright students came to me because theywere struggling academically, a scenario they had yet to experience. It was a shock and they were having a crisis worrying that they were in the wrong place. I would tell them that if everything were easy for you, then you’re not pushing yourself enough. Everyone eventually will find they have to struggle if they continue to learn and grow; to do so otherwise means stagnation.
People who are stagnant may not experience much stress, but it also means they are not thriving. Take the analogy of a plant. As someone who harbors a black thumb, I know all too well that a plant which is not growing is actually dying, and it’s just a matter of time before it goes to the great compost heap in the sky.
The same is true for people. According to Carol Dweck, author of Growth Mindset, people who do not believe they can grow and improve tend to be more depressed and less successful. Those who are always trying to learn and grow tend to be more successful and happier. So embrace your challenges. We are here on Earth to rise to those challenges and bring that wisdom back to others.
We are facing grand challenges socially, economically, politically, environmentally, and spiritually. The Foundation is aiming to help us rise to the occasion, but you have to want to learn and grow to surmount these issues. I am excited by the slate of educational programs that we will be launching in 2020 and 2021 and the scope of our social media programs and regional meetings. Come join us. Follow us on social media (Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn) to stay apprised of our work and learn how to help Earth to heal herself. Check out our website. Spread the word to those who you feel might really resonate with our mission. Donate a few dollars, I promise we’ll put it to good use!
Hope to see you there too!